Help with out of control hair! Curly, Thick, and Wavy?

I have the same problem and the same type of hair. The best thing I have found to do is (if you're on a time limit) use Tresemme Curling Mousse (I can't remember the exact name of it). Separate your hair into about three sections and use a generous dollop on each section. When it dries, your hair should be curly, but controlled. And it won't be hard as a rock. The big thing people make a mistake with is putting WAY too much mousse on their hair. If you have bangs, I suggest adding a front poof to your hair to dress it up.